In the past the most moving thing about the Way of the Cross for me has been the presence of all the people, or the witness of being in a public place and being moved by those accompanying me on the walk.

This year, however, it was really the reflections that struck me. One of the most beautiful things about the Way of the Cross for me was the theme of sacrifice that came up throughout many of the reflections in our booklet. Recently, I have found myself balking at the idea of sacrifice, not wanting to make sacrifices, even in small ways like doing extra dishes and cleaning, especially for my husband. Attending the Way of the Cross in Omaha this year was, for me, a great reminder of the sacrifice of Christ and the beauty of sacrifice in my own life. "Sacrifice is not an objection, but rather a path to maturity." When I heard these words, I realized that this is precisely the attitude that I have had - that sacrifice is an objection to my happiness. But walking along our route, listening to the reflections by the priests, and being surrounded by many of my friends (some of whom are new parents who I know make sacrifices every day), I was reminded that Giussani's words are true - that sacrifice might seem an objection at first, but it really is what brings me to maturity and to experience the Resurrection.

When I refuse to make sacrifices (often out of fear) it never makes me any happier - only more turned inward, aware only of myself and my wants. But when I make the sacrifices that are asked of me, it causes me to grow and brings joy into my relationships - and this is the joy that I desire all the time.